Surviving the Internet: The Unspoken Rules

The internet wasn’t built for us.

If you’re a sex worker, kinkster, or anyone operating in the margins of mainstream platforms, you already know this. You’ve probably had your accounts shadowbanned, deleted, or hacked. You’ve been stalked, scammed, and forced to fight for digital survival in a system that profits off you while trying to erase or censor you.

🔮 If You’ve Ever…

🕵️‍♀️ Had a client or ‘fan’ threaten to leak your content, doxx you, or blackmail you.

🚩 Been catfished by a fake dom, a ‘generous’ sugar daddy, or a paypig who ghosted after wasting your time.

🔒 Worried that one wrong click could expose your real identity, drain your accounts, or ruin your reputation…

Then you already know that the internet isn’t just risky, it’s a bit of a battleground at times.

But nobody teaches us how to protect ourselves.

The Hidden Risks No One Talks About

Sex workers, kinksters, and content creators exist in a bit of a digital Wild West, where the rules are constantly shifting. Platforms pretend to “protect” users while quietly profiting from our content, meanwhile doing a poor job at best of protecting us from the predators lurking in plain sight, dodgy payment providers and customer chargebacks. The biggest threats aren’t always obvious until it’s too late.

🚨 Shadowbanning & Algorithmic Censorship – If you rely on social media, you’re one bad post away from vanishing overnight.

🚨 Scams & Financial Exploitation – Chargebacks, bait-and-switch paypigs, and "big spenders" who suddenly go broke and just need you to send them some money first then they'll pay you.

🚨 Doxxing & Stalking – Some people really want a piece of you, or at least want to frighten you with the idea.

The internet plays dirty. It’s time we play smarter.

What You’ll Find Here

This space exists to arm you with the knowledge, tools, and digital street smarts you need to stay safe online. No fluff. No generic safety tips. Just real strategies for real risks.

🔮 The Digital Dungeon: Online Safety & Cybersecurity – How to keep your accounts, data, and personal life locked down.

🕸 Scam & Predator Prevention – How to spot time-wasters, fraudsters, and digital manipulators before they can do damage.

⚠️ Doxxing, Stalking & Digital Self-Defense – How to stay untraceable, untouchable, and in control.

Each week, I’ll be breaking down the unspoken rules of online survival so you can navigate these spaces on your terms.

Your First Power Play

Here’s where we start: Drop a comment below. What’s your biggest online safety fear or struggle?

I’ll cover the most common ones in upcoming posts.

Surviving and thriving online isn’t about luck. It’s about strategy, awareness, and knowing the game.